Kindness got me here — so pay it forwardMay 16, 2019
“The greatest effects we have on the world are the ones we can never see.”
Chris Matakas, The Tao of Jiu Jitsu
I've been volunteering as an alumni for close to 2 years now. Some times I extended my hands to those who reach out, some times I just attend to Slack questions and even proactively approach based on interactions I noticed.
Over time, I've become close with some of them. I've reach out to them and they are kind enough to provide me with feedbacks and testimonials of our interactions and relationships we've made.
Feedbacks & Testimonials
— Firdaus Adib (his Linkedin)
Kindness got me here
I saw this twitter thread the other day and it inspires me to share my own version;
I was mid-PhD when I found out I was pregnant with our 2nd boy.— Jin Russell (@DrJinRussell) April 23, 2019
I was embarrassed to tell my supervisors, I said “you must think I’m not serious about my PhD.”
My supervisor slammed his laptop shut, looked at me and said “Never for a second.”#kindness got me here #phdchat https://t.co/mPMSZBFtgY
I wouldn't be where I stand today without these personal heroes of mine;
Brian probably didn't even realize this but he was one of the first who taught me what empathy feels like on the receiving end, and how it changed my life for the better.
Jodi inspired me with her travels and stories on Legal Nomads. I traveled a lot in my 20s all thanks to Jodi. I'm inspired at how genuinely kind Jodi is and always remind myself to carry the same standard. Way back in 2011, I emailed Jodi asking for some photography questions and to my surprise, she was so humble and replied me. She taught me how to pursue my own passion and have courage to do it.
Chris was an online friend first and one day he came to KL for a conference. Back then I used to complain so much about how unlucky I was, then Chris decided to share his personal story and it made me reflect and gain perspectives. Chris taught me how we are in control of our destiny and future. Life is how we react to circumstances that happen to us.
I am so lucky to meet Hass as a colleague and later on, becomes one of the closest friends. Hass is like a brother to me, taught me so everything he knows. He's been there for me through my struggles, ups and downs. I won't be where I am today without his support and friendship.
Another thing that I am blessed and feel lucky about is that we can have different views and thoughts on things, but we engaged at it to understand other perspectives better and perhaps shine light on our blindspots.